Instruction :
- In your own words define what "Love" is.
- Read 1 Corinthians 13:1-13 and see what God's Word says Love is.
- Answer the question, does your definition and God's definition agree? It should!
- Click here to read 1 Corinthians 13:1-13
- v1-2 And now I will show you the most excellent way. If I speak in tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
Powerful words coming from Paul here.. Sometimes the Bible can challenge our beliefs, our philosophies. When reading that, did you completely agree to it or did you begin to make up excuses in your head and try and think of another verse that seems to contradict in order that your thinking might not change? Be careful that you are not deceived; the Bible clearly reads, that even if I have faith that can move MOUNTAINS, but have not love, I am nothing.
Obviously since the Bible teaches that Love is even greater than faith, we had better pay attention and strive to learn God's definition of Love.
- v3 If I give all I posses to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
Now imagine that you give your body to the flames but because you do not love, you gain NOTHING.
How important is Love? God's Word shows us that it is more important than anything else that we can do.
Now, if you're like me.. you think.. well I love people.. so I've got this down. I mean I LOVE my wife, and I LOVE my friends. So yeah, I do LOVE. Well we won't know if we're truly loving, I mean with God's definition, if we don't look to see what God's definition is...
- v4-8 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs, Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves. Love never fails..
Love is..
Patient - am I patient? I can certainly say that often I am not.
Kind - am I kind? not always.. depends on my mood (right..)
Does not Envy - do I desire things that other people own? hmm...
Does not Boast - what about when I do something awesome.. fail.
Is not Proud - but I'm a man.. fail.
Is not Rude - Even when someone cuts me off? Cheats me? Does me wrong??
Is not Self-Seeking - So I can't seek (look to) do things that benefit me?
Is not Easily Angered - even when someone cuts me off!?
Keeps NO Record of Wrongs - forgiveness is so key.. as a matter of fact Jesus said that if we don't forgive our Father in Heaven won't forgive us. Read (Matthew 18:21-35)
Have you ever noticed that in the Lord's prayer found in Matthew 6:9-13 in verse 12 it says "And forgive us our debts, AS WE FORGIVE OUR DEBTORS."
Love, does not delight in Evil - do I ever enjoy hearing when someone loses their big nice beautiful home? NO? Not even when it's someone that has wronged me? do I ever think to myself "they got what they deserved" that is the delight in evil.
Love Rejoices with Truth - Do you rejoice in truth even when it convicts, even when the truth is opposing to what we want to believe?
Love, Always Protects, Always Trusts, Always Hopes, Always Preserves. Always? Always.
Love Never Fails
I think it's safe to say that most people reading this, have been convicted of one thing or another listed here. If you haven't you had better make sure it's the Spirit that assures your faith and not the enemy that would promote self righteousness.
- v8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies they will cease; where there are tonuges, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
I believe I have the Spirit and the Spirit has made this known to me. What Paul says is saying is that if I am a prophet, my prophecies will pass away in time. If I speak in tongues, the words I utter and even my body will pass away; making the tongues cease. And where there is knowledge, it will pass away. Do you see the pattern yet? All of which refer to man ceasing to exist, passing away and with it their deeds.
So what does all of this have to do with anything? It has to do with Love. Love never fails. While all of these other things will pass away with time, Love endures through the generations by God's sovereign power and gracious will.
- v11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face.
When I was a child (obedient to sin), I talked like a child (spoke evil), I thought like a child (thought evil) I reasoned like a child (reasoned selfishly) When I became a man (received the Spirit of God) I put childish ways behind me. (put away the old sinful body) Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror(the old is passing away); then we shall see face to face. (I believe this is to mean, to see the Lord)
- v13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
Closing Prayer
Father teach me your ways and put away the things of my flesh, for in you are the things of truth and love. Please give me the heart you desire and keep my eyes from being blind but give me the sight of truth for the glory of your name. Amen.